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austintxsub asked: Do you have a lot of experience with enforced chastity? If so, have you found that the chastity device induces submissive feelings in a male, or rather is the chastity device a good tool for allowing the expression of pre-existing submissive feelings?


Answer:

Hey, good evening and thank you for your question.

Though I’ve not played with anyone inclined towards this kink myself, as I understand from anecdotal evidence it really depends on the individual. For the guys I am thinking of I’m 99% certain they are prone to sub by feelings even without being under lock and key. Chastity is an expression of this and can heighten the sensation. 

I highly recommend you check out the following blogs/forums that know far more than I do on this subject;

http://denyingthumper.com

http://chastityforums.com

http://keyheld.blogspot.com

http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com

Good luck and happy reading. 

:)

— 2 days ago with 1 note
stormyforecast asked: I saw your post about examining where your kinks come from, where do you believe your kinks come from?


Answer:

Hey! 

Thanks for your question. Obviously, my answer can only apply to my own projections and experiences about my sexuality. Everyone is different and I’m not speaking for all women here. I hope that would be obvious, but hey,  you never know if people might misconstrue my words. Below is my response. My really, really long response. 

— 4 days ago with 18 notes

I think questioning where your kinks come from and how you can better assimilate them into a healthy, safe and mutually respectful relationship with another person is a very healthy thing. 

— 1 month ago with 8 notes
#kink  #self awareness  #self examination